Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Wednesday, December 28
The End of 2016
Merry Christmas!
If you're visiting here from our Christmas letter, I invite you to look around at a few previous posts from this past year to catch up on our family! I didn't write here much this year, and missed a few special occasions I fear, but what I write here serves the purpose of keeping our family's memories in one place. And I don't mind sharing!
We started 2016 as a family of six and ended it as a family of seven! In case you missed the news, we welcomed Theo to our family on October 7. Yes, he was 13 days late, just like his big sister, but I don't hold it against him because he's just so stinking cute! It has been such a pleasure to welcome him to our family, and the resemblance between him and his siblings has been phenomenal. He definitely fits in! He was diagnosed with a VSD only 4 days after birth, but we received good news in early December that his heart appears to be healing on it's own- no doubt due to the faithful prayers of our family and friends. Thank you for praying for him, would you please continue to pray that it fully heals and won't require surgery?
Ryan has supported me through yet another long pregnancy, been my loyal companion, and is my greatest love. We celebrated 11 years of marriage in July and he is celebrating 10 years at his workplace this year. He recently had an experience that has lead us to be even more thankful for employment at a company that values its employees. Ryan spent a lot of time woodworking this year, starting with headboards for the boys, spending a couple of months on a chicken coop, and wrapping it up with some Christmas gifts! He coached Luke's soccer team again in the spring semester, but we took the fall off so that we could have some free time before Theo was born. Ryan also founded an LLC with a friend and they are busting into the real estate business in their "free time." It's been very rewarding for him to work on these side projects- you know Ryan is the kind of guy who likes to stay busy!
I spent the greater part of 2016 gestating another human being. ;-) We wrapped up our school year in June and I had a delightful summer hosting my sister at our house. I loved having her in our home as it gave us a chance to reconnect and share life together. Her presence helped bring me out of a funk I had experienced in my early pregnancy when I just didn't quite feel like myself. We kept busy all summer, started school a little early in August with the hopes of getting some good work in before Baby came. Those last few weeks of pregnancy were emotionally and mentally very difficult, but the payoff came when we had a wonderful, peaceful, and QUICK home birth, and discovered we had another son! The whole experience was an answer to my prayers. I feel like I never had a huge burst of "nesting" energy during his pregnancy, so I have a lot of home projects I hope to find time for next year!
Our family took one big trip to Panama City Beach in Florida for a last-minute Memorial Day weekend getaway, and it was so very beautiful. While traveling in the car all day isn't my most favorite thing in the world, getting away with just my little family always offers us a chance to reconnect and experience new things together. This trip was no exception! We stayed in a nice condominium within walking distance from the beach. We ate easy meals together, built sand castles, fished and caught crabs, and took a late night walk in the dark on the beach. Those times together are always so joyful because everyone is always so happy to be doing something new! They are great memories for all of us.
Bethany Grace just turned 10 years old! She is halfway through her 4th grade year at our home school, and is still an incredible artist. She's been taking piano lessons all year long and has a natural affinity for music! She loves to sit down at the piano and figure out how to play hymns that we're studying or music that she's learning in choir at co-op, which makes the fine arts side of me so very happy. She also enjoys creative writing and LOTS of reading! She has been such an incredible help since Theo has been born; she is a proud big sister to her younger siblings! After much preparation at home, our Bishop allowed Bethany to be confirmed in May. This was a big day for her as a young woman! She loves hanging out with her friends, baking, reading, going to the library, and teasing and taunting her brothers in a sisterly way! I can see that she has a bit of entrepreneur in her as she's always considering how she can sell her art or coming up with ideas to stock up an Etsy shop!
Luke Michael turned 8 in October and has continued to grow and mature in ways that greatly impress me. His mind is very logical and goal-oriented; this is a wonderful talent that we are learning how to utilize and mold into gifts for God. Luke received his First Holy Communion in April and soon after trained to be an altar boy. In August, Luke started attending 2nd grade at a hybrid school, in which he attends classes on Mondays and Thursdays and we complete his lessons on the other days he is home. As a high-energy extrovert, he is thriving! He loves his friends and his teacher, and he loves being able to attend mass more often than any of us. He still loves Legos and the thrill of figuring out how things work.
Jackson Paul is still my silly, sweet, thoughtful boy that is now officially the "middle child." He can be incredibly wild and crazy or painfully shy and soft-spoken! He turned 6 in June and had a really fun day picking blueberries and swimming with his uncles at the pool. Jack is in 1st grade and he loves school. He is always eager and happy to start his work and always has a wonderful attitude about getting his work done. He (and Luke) both love being read aloud to, and Jack has also made some wonderful strides toward learning how to read on his own. He is also a budding artist and is begging to start music lessons of some sort. Right now he is preparing for his First Holy Communion next spring. I just love his enthusiasm for everything he wants to do.
At almost 3, Caeli Rose is spirited, silly, imaginative, and soooo cute! She can easily get lost in play for an hour, loves books, and follows Luke and Jack around like she's just as big as they are. She is still so expressive, telling stories and talking with her hands and hips, and she owns the room. Her speech has exploded in the past two months, and she loves doing her "work math" alongside the older kids when they are doing their school work. She loves Finley but always fusses at the cats and chases them away! She puts her whole spirit into anything she does, I have no doubt she will move mountains one day.
Theodore Augustine Joseph (yes, that's three names!) will be three months young soon. He is smiling and cooing at everyone and is so close to laughing! I think he will be rolling over soon, as Caeli did at three months old, because he has some strong abs for an infant! He sleeps well at night, usually waking up once or twice to nurse and then falling contentedly back to sleep. His current loves are: his big siblings and anyone who will talk sweetly to him, diaper changes and laying on his changing pad in the bathroom, baths, and nursing. He currently hates getting out of the bath, and roads that have lots of stop lights (I agree with him on this one).
Sunday, January 1
Christmas Tree Farm
Our trip to the Christmas tree farm this year was more of a trip to visit the animals, ride the train, and run around the tree fields! The farm we go to has lots of little fun extras to see and do, and we spent more time checking out these extras than we had in the past.
Sunday, January 2
Christmas!
Finally, my Christmas post! This year was our first year to host the festivities at our home, and it was really nice. I loved being home, in my bed, waking up with the presents under our tree, attending mass at our parish, and enjoying all things Christmas at our house. My parents didn't stay with us this year, but they came on Dec 23 to stop by and visit before heading to my grandmother's house. Then on the morning of the 24th, things got busy! Ryan's parents came over, my parents (and all four brothers!) came over, and we got busy cooking. We had a Christmas Eve lunch before heading to Christmas Eve mass.After mass we came home, had some leftovers and took some pictures in front of the tree. The kids were excited but exhausted, so we had no trouble putting them to bed. I zonked out pretty early myself but Ryan and his dad apparently started a new tradition of staying up until 1:30am and drinking Jack Daniels on ice. ;-)

Christmas morning was full of fun and laziness! We took our time opening gifts, making muffins, and laying around in our pajamas all morning! Ryan's parents left about nap time, and we put the kids down before heading out for the afternoon and evening family events.

At this point I should mention that I received a gift on Christmas Eve, a new camera lens which allows me to take even more awesome pictures! Beth's big gift was a Our Generation doll she's named Lily, Luke received several handmade toys (not made by us!) like a tractor and bull dozer, and Jack received... some clothes? Poor guy didn't get much from us yet, but he's going to be getting a new car seat cover as soon as I find one on sale!
So after nap time we went to my Aunt and Uncle's house for a family dinner, where my sister and her boyfriend met up with us. Then my immediate family came back over to our house to open presents before heading to my grandmother's house for more presents and dessert!
Wednesday, December 1
Advent and Christmas
This year I'll be trying something new, something I've wanted to do in the past but haven't really had the chance. We'll be celebrating the feast day of St. Nicholas on December 6th (next Monday). I've been reading up online of several people's traditions, talked to my sister-in-law about their Romanian traditions, and trying to decipher for our family what the right balance is. In years past I've been torn about whether to do the whole "Santa" thing or not, so we haven't made a big deal out of it and it hasn't been an issue. I finally feel that Beth is old enough to really get everything that's going on though, so we've got to get our act together!
As much as I want to emphasize Jesus, I also don't want to "steal" away their childhood by not including fantasy characters like Santa. I know that sounds silly but it's ridiculous how torn I am about this one!
Beth has been asked what she wants for Christmas from Santa, so now that the seed has been planted in her mind I've got to figure out how to keep the emphasis on Christ and not on wanting gifts. The past three years the children have received gifts from Mommy and Daddy, and one from the siblings, and one from Santa. This year I want it to be the same I think, except they'll also get some goodies on St. Nick's day.
As Catholic Christians, right now we're celebrating Advent and not Christmas. I have grand ideas of a larger-than-life Jesse tree, not decorating the Christmas tree until the December 24, singing "Oh Come Oh Come Emmanuel" every day instead of songs about Santa, and having my children line up perfectly for holiday photos. Ha, I'll keep dreaming about that last one! My house is still decorated for fall, in my fantasy world I would have switched out my decor on the first Sunday of Advent (last Sunday). Instead, I think we'll switch things out on Friday when we go get our tree!
So for now, I think the plan is that every night we'll continue to read from out little Advent prayer book at dinner time. We'll decorate the house, continue talking about Jesus' upcoming birthday, and if it comes up, talk about how Santa's origins are in St. Nicholas. I have some coloring pages and maybe some crafts planned for St. Nick's day, we'll be polishing our shoes and leaving them out the night before for some goodies! This website has a ton of great information and craft ideas if you're interested.
As much as I want to emphasize Jesus, I also don't want to "steal" away their childhood by not including fantasy characters like Santa. I know that sounds silly but it's ridiculous how torn I am about this one!
Beth has been asked what she wants for Christmas from Santa, so now that the seed has been planted in her mind I've got to figure out how to keep the emphasis on Christ and not on wanting gifts. The past three years the children have received gifts from Mommy and Daddy, and one from the siblings, and one from Santa. This year I want it to be the same I think, except they'll also get some goodies on St. Nick's day.
As Catholic Christians, right now we're celebrating Advent and not Christmas. I have grand ideas of a larger-than-life Jesse tree, not decorating the Christmas tree until the December 24, singing "Oh Come Oh Come Emmanuel" every day instead of songs about Santa, and having my children line up perfectly for holiday photos. Ha, I'll keep dreaming about that last one! My house is still decorated for fall, in my fantasy world I would have switched out my decor on the first Sunday of Advent (last Sunday). Instead, I think we'll switch things out on Friday when we go get our tree!
So for now, I think the plan is that every night we'll continue to read from out little Advent prayer book at dinner time. We'll decorate the house, continue talking about Jesus' upcoming birthday, and if it comes up, talk about how Santa's origins are in St. Nicholas. I have some coloring pages and maybe some crafts planned for St. Nick's day, we'll be polishing our shoes and leaving them out the night before for some goodies! This website has a ton of great information and craft ideas if you're interested.
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